BEING HAPPY🤍

Happiness is a state of mind. You are solely responsible for your happiness. You can't expect to be happy all the time, you have to accept that you will have moments that make you unhappy. Happiness is not something that happens to us, it's something we choose. The people around us are not responsible for our happiness and it's up to us to find happiness in small things like a good meal, a walk in nature, or a good book. When we find happiness, we should share it with the people around us. We should not always expect others to make us happy. If you feel like you are unhappy, try to be a little more mindful and focus on what makes you happy instead of what makes other people happy. We often think that we need to wait for something to happen to be happy, but in reality, we need to stop expecting and start accepting. Happiness lies everywhere. It's not just about being happy all the time, it's about finding happiness in the small things that happen every day. It's about appreciating what you have and who you are.

One day a scientist was asked to create a machine that would make people happy. He tried and tried, but always failed. One day, He was at the beach with his girlfriend and they saw an old man who had a smile on his face. they noticed he was carrying a small box. They walked up to him and asked what he was doing. He said he's making people happy by giving them boxes that are filled with happiness. They were intrigued so we asked him how he does it. He said he just makes people happy by giving them boxes with things they love, like some chocolate, some flowers, some wine, etc. He said if you give someone something they like, it'll make them happy. And that's correct. No machine or tablet can give happiness to people. It's the small things that make people happier.

If you don’t know what makes you happy, ask yourself these questions:

What brings me joy?
Do I like to do this for myself or for others?
With whom I'm happy?
What is important to me?
What am I doing with my life that is fulfilling and joyful?

By answering all these questions you can find where your happiness lies.

“Rules for happiness: something to do, someone to love, something to hope for.”- Immanuel Kant

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